Intimacy Deck

Regular price $29.99 USD
150 conversations for partners to connect in surprising ways.

Strengthen your intimate relationships with conversations that build trust, openness, and vulnerability.

It can be difficult to keep your closest relationships alive. With all of life's distractions and pressures, it’s easy to lose focus and get into a complacent routine. Before you know it, you forget the joys of what brought you together and you stop talking in the ways that you used to love.


Packed with 150 conversation starters, the Intimacy Deck helps you spark the deep and meaningful conversations that bring you closer together. Get ready to ignite more passion and fall in love again!


Pick a card, ask your partner the question, and see where your conversation leads. You might be surprised by the twists and turns your discussions take. These questions are designed to help you get to know each other better - so get ready to be open, vulnerable, and even a little uncomfortable. It’s worth it. The more you talk, the more your love will grow to a new level.


Whether you're starting a new relationship or reinvigorating an existing one, use the Intimacy Deck to talk in a way that strengthens your relationship for the better.

The perfect addition to date night

These fun and engaging cards help you introduce the same curiosity and excitement you shared on your first date together.

Reignite your spark

With prompts that encourage you to speak your truth, share your past, and plan for your future, it’s your everyday tool for a healthier and happier relationship.

Increase and improve communication

Lack of communication is a common culprit in many relationship issues. By carving out time to be present you’ll feel more connected with your partner.

Get to know each other better

Use the Intimacy Deck to ask the questions you wouldn’t normally ask and learn about your partner on a deeper level.

Spend more quality time

Put away your phones, switch off the TV, and use these prompts to shake (and even spice) things up.

Learn to speak each other’s love languages

Use the prompts to play a game. Guess your partner’s answer to a particular card and test how well you know each other.

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Customer Reviews

Based on 216 reviews
Thoughtful Gifts - Convenient Too!

Bought a Self-Planner and an Intimacy Deck for shared use with my wife. Shipped quickly and smoothly to us within the stated time window, despite the holiday shopping rush. Keep up the good work, Best Self Co.!


Amazing way to connect in with my partner, love this product!!


Really enjoyed using this product!

Date night revival

I bought this for my husband and me to use at dinner on our 11th anniversary, and it made such a difference in our conversation. I actually learned things I didn't know about him! To be honest, we've been coming off a hard year in our marriage, and I dunno... something shifted between us after using this deck to spark our connection... I highly recommend for couples who only talk about the kids and domestic issues!

Deeper and meaningful conversations.

My boyfriend and I really enjoy this deck! It has led to so many deep and meaningful conversations between us and really helped make our communication in our relationship stronger.